Build Your Sunday School - Visit!

This post is related to the one about Sunday School last week, when I talked about contacting people who haven't been there in a while.

This week, I am talking about keeping in touch - outside class - with students who are your tried-and-true regular attenders.

Contacting them outside class helps you do a few things:

• It allows them to talk privately about sensitive issues.  There may be prayer requests or relationship concerns that they wouldn't bring up in class.
• It gives an opportunity for specific feedback.  Sometimes your quietest students have the best ideas or suggestions as to how to make things better.  Get with them one on one and listen to what they have to say.
• It shows that you care about them.  If you only see them in class, you may give the impression that you take them for granted or that you on care about the fact that they come to Sunday School.
• It deepens relationships.  By extending yourself outside class, you are opening yourself as well.
• It extends the reach of your pastor.  Some people wait a long time to get a visit from the CO.  You can help these soldiers feel more a part of the congregation.

Ideas to make contact:

• Find a way that works for both of you.  For some, it's the phone.  For others, it's Facebook.  Some people like email, while in certain situations, a home visit is the best.  Find out the best way to make contact.
• Contact your students regularly.  With a smaller class, you can make a contact once every month or two.  Obviously, there will be people that you naturally connect better with, and you will want to contact them more frequently.  Just make sure that you get to all of them eventually.
• Listen.  You have an agenda, yes, but make sure that your student gets to say what's on their minds.
• Bring someone else along.  Sometimes, you know in advance that a visit might be awkward.  For instance, if you are visiting someone of the opposite sex who lives alone, it is best to bring someone with you.
• Keep it short.  Yes, some people will want to visit for a long time.  But keeping it short will ensure that future visits will be welcomed, not dreaded.
• Share with your pastor.  There might be a situation that you are really concerned about, maybe an issue that is beyond your expertise.  Keeping the Captain informed will help develop a team approach to meeting needs.

Will you commit to making contact with a few students this weekend?  It will help enliven your Sunday School class.

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Where Have You Been?

Life gets crazy sometimes.  Sometimes, you have to break your routine.  So you miss Sunday School a few times.  But no one called.  No one emailed.  Does anyone care that you missed?  Do you really want to go back?

These are the thoughts of too many people who have been enthusiastically invited and welcomed to church, but after coming for awhile, have an interruption.  Do we as Sunday School teachers notice?  Do we do anything about it?

In the near future, I will put a post up about how to show care and respect to others.  One way to drop the ball is to fail to contact someone who misses class.

Here are a few ways to do it:

1. Postcard.  OK, it's a little old-fashioned, but everyone likes to get mail.  There are colorful cards available at Christian bookstores that can be filled out by hand on Sunday afternoon.  If you drop it in the mailbox right away, your student has mail - showing you care and you missed them - on Tuesday.
2. Email. In this digital age, you can send a quick note through email.  Many young people use Facebook instead of email, so get an account and send friend requests to your class members. I hope that someday, the Sunday School attendance book will have room for email and Facebook name.  There are even some free digital cards you can send.
3. Phone call.  I know someone who hated to miss Sunday School, because they know if they missed, they would get a call from someone.  Now guilt is a poor motivator, but sometimes it's the only thing that does the trick.  If you teach a children's class, call the student's parents, let them know why you are calling and ask permission to talk with your student.  I've never had a parent say "no," and many times, it is even more important to communicate to the parent about the absence than the student.  After all, the parent is often your student's only transportation to Sunday School.  Just touch base to see if everything is OK.
4. Home visit.  There are situations that just seem funny, and you suspect that something crazy is happening at your student's home.  If you it would make you feel more comfortable, bring someone else along - maybe the Sunday School teacher from the older sister's class.  Just go to the home, and have a friendly visit.  Let the whole family know they were missed.  Ask if there is something you can pray about.  Then pray and go.  Don't stay forever.  They have things to do, and so do you.  Remember, everyone can make home visits; not just the Corps Officer.

This Sunday, pay attention to your attendance sheet.  Make note of who is missing and how long they have been missing.  There may be students in your class who are ready to fall through the cracks.  Don't wait any longer - contact them and let them know you care that they are missing.

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