I am planning a life-changing event for me and eight men. It will start September 2010 and will go for nine months.
The commitment:
- Mandatory attendance and participation in nine Monday night sessions (roughly once a month), three hours each with me at my home in Des Plaines, Illinois.
- Activities between sessions, including reading, writing and memorizing scripture
- Humility - being transparent and open to new and challenging teaching in your life. Also being willing to share your triumphs and defeats in order to help others in the group.
- Final pot luck dinner session with spouses (Date and location TBA, Spring 2011)
- Being willing to "pay it forward," mentoring another group of men at some point when it is appropriate in your life.
- Phase 1 - Gather email addresses from any interested in participating. Giving me your email address does not commit you to the process or promise you a spot in the sessions.
- Phase 2 - Applications will be distributed by email in June 2010 with an invitation to apply.
- Phase 3 - Eight participants will be selected, invited and asked to agree to a list of commitments. This will be completed by August 15, 2010.
- Phase 4 - Mentoring sessions begin September 2010.
- It's a finite commitment. It won't last forever, so it is a more manageable commitment.
- We will all learn from each other in an open, transparent environment. The ability to be honest and hold each other accountable will be invaluable.
- We will each be better husbands, fathers and church members.
- You will be better equipped and encouraged to "pass the torch," mentoring other men in the future.
I am looking forward not only to meeting a new group of friends, but also to seeing what God will do among us as we pour our lives into each other.
I have attended a similar style of group before and for me it was an amazing experience. When my husband and I were separated and both in counseling, our counselor suggested group counseling. It was an intense commitment (2 hours every week for at least 6 months - I ended up staying in for over 2 years) but the benefits of a space where you are expected to be completely transparent are phenomenal.
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